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Cosmopolitan has commissioned a survey and asked social psychologist Dr Asi Sharabi to interpret a selection of Facebook profile pictures and tell us what common profile picture themes tell us about the person in question.  And here are the results:

POUTING: Presenting such a provocative, sensual symbol indicates someone who wishes to be acknowledged in a sexual way – seeking intimacy or a partner. It could also indicate being a very tactile person

WITH AN ANIMAL: A person who displays themselves as capable of caring and nurturing, indicating need of an outlet for these tendencies and a broody nature.

DANCING: To display yourself on display, so to speak, is the ultimate invitation to be watched. Those who show themselves dancing are likely to be strongly extrovert. Additionally, in Western Culture, dancing has strong connotations toward leisure and freedom, denoting a hedonistic, pleasure-seeking streak.

WITH A BOYFRIEND: A popular picture type with serial monogamists, and signifies searching for a deeper or more committed relationship.

WITH A GUY (NOT BOYFRIEND): As well as a simple flirtatious contact, a picture with a potentially ambiguous meaning shows a love of creating stories, and playing games with the social fabric. In short, one who thrives on gossip.

DOING AN ACTIVITY: This is someone who identifies with their abilities and experiences rather than emotions or relationships. It may also indicate an unwillingness to commit or settle down.

ON HOLIDAY: Those who identify themselves with a carefree holiday may have a tendency to over-stress in their everyday lives. This could also indicate escapist fantasies or a dreamer disposition.

LOOKING AWAY FROM CAMERA: An unwillingness to be caught and posed in the conventional way is indicative of someone headstrong and confident in their approach to life.

NIGHT OUT/FANCY DRESS: This image represents the social, extroverted aspects of a personality; denoting that they value confidence and attention highly.

Just one missing from the list for me, the one where the picture is taken from the best possible angle making the person look 200% more attractive/slim/muscular than they actually are in real life! God knows Ive seen a few of those knocking around Facebook!

An article appeared in the Sunday Mirror yesterday entitled “TWO-FACEDBOOK – my hubby of 5yrs got back with his old flame on website”.  Reporting the story of Eleanor Saddlington who’s husband, Lee, walked out on her and their 2 children to reunite with and old school flame.

I cant imagine he is the first to do so, and I dont think he will be the last, but it did highlight to me the other side to reuniting people from the past which is often eclipsed by stories of reunions with old school friends and long lost relatives.  Social networking sites are another communication tool, much like mobile phones, email and instant messaging which people use to connect with each other.  For single people this is likely to involve flirting with members of the opposite sex and connecting with the girl or boy you met in the bar last night.  But for people in a relationship this is another means by which individuals can enbark on extra marital affairs and connect with people out of view of their partners.

Thats the fact, give people a means of communication and they will use it as they choose.  But the article appeared to place some of the blame on Facebook for this occurrence.  To quote the article;

“Lee admitted to her that the fling was down to the site.”

No it wasn’t, it was down to two grown adults deciding that they wanted to pursue each other even though they were attached.  Don’t blame Facebook, it was purely the vessel for the communication.

And what does the jilted mother do to get her own back? Does she petition against Facebook and curse its name?  No, she starts her own group “I hate Stephanie Burton” (that’s the other offender if you hadn’t guessed)/

You could call it cheap, but Ill call it social, as Facebook asks the social community for help with translating its pages into different languages.    It makes sense, with a community of people bought into the Facebook phenomenon why not let them provide some translation services for free?

Well, Im sorry Facebook, although I do speak English as requested, thats about as far as my language skills stretch, maybe you should use some of your targeting capabilities to find your translation team?

facebook uses social networking to translate its pages

facebook uses social networking to translate its pages

Reuters has reported that porn is no longer the main past time on the internet with the world of social networking the new leading activity conducted online.  According to the findings not only do people spend more time on social sites than they do viewing pornography but also the number of searches for adult related phrases has dropped in recent years.  One quote from the article..

“My theory is that young users spend so much time on social networks that they don’t have time to look at adult sites.”

..is a little far fetched in my opinion.  If someone is interested in loooking at pornography online then they will find the time to do so!  My opinion is that is just the sheer volume of users now engaged in sites like Facebook and also the fact that they are enticing people who never used to spend too much time online to use the Internet a little more.

Interesting to see that the Internet is not as porn dominated as it once was but it is still pretty dominant as the second most popular online past time and will take some shifting.

It was my birthday yesterday, and of the messages and cards I did receiev there was one from an unexpected source, Facebook!  This may not be new but as it would only occur once a year all I can say is that it wasnt in place last year.  A nice happy birthday message on my homepage when I signed in made me feel loved by the social network.

facebook remebered my birthday

facebook remebered my birthday